After hearing accounts of so many failed relationships,
(i'm quite sian of hearing actually)
these are like the repetitive 3 relationship killers
1) Non-stop 'revenge' (unforgiveness)
2) possessiveness of the other party-insecurity
3) unmet expectations
before one/both sian of quarrel/cold war then start looking for the 'grass on the greener side'
It seems to boil down to self-centeredness.
A relationship foundation not built upon Christ is.... tough
But how about those non-christian couples who are also happily together what...
well ... that's coz who are you that they want to share with u what they are facing
But how about those christian couples who also have so many problems..
well ... who says christians have no prob, its juz how they HANDLE them (very different really) and who says christians NATURALLY will build their relationship foundation on Christ. Alot in fact don't. They are GOOD christians individually but not a GOOD christian couple when together.
No horror movie can match to watching ur own relationship deteriorating to a standstill.
I will give it a rating of R(∞)-too disturbing that no age group can tahan
Thank God i'm single (and i'm still quite optimistic abt relationship) , u remind me of what i could be (the ugly side) ---from other people's experience when u was placed out of their equation of love.
But merciful Lord, may ur grace and blessings continue to be upon those couples to weather thru the storms and may they be aware of the need to have u in all aspects of their lives.
ok la some parts maybe not that true but well it's my blog
anyway..
i REALLY NO LIFE!
My life is revolving around lab report & unfinish work (SO MANY)that it freaks me to even think about it.
EFFICIENCY,PRIORITY & TIME-MANAGEMENT!
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hahaha! that's quite a nice post on relationships. you should be a blog-doctor. or maybe you should put a blog counter lor.. maybe i should start by being a follower of your blog! haha, i've too many suggestions.
ReplyDeleteanways, don't no life leh.. let's go chill babeeh!
have fun in school God bless, in everything, may He be your strength when you find it so difficult to concentrate!