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Relationship dialectics

1) Autonomy/connection- desires to be separate , on the one hand and to be connected, on the other, opposition of which creates tension. Because we want to be deeply linked to others, we cherish spending time with our intimates, sharing experiences and feeling connected. At the same time , each of us needs an independent identity. We don't want relationships to swallow our individuality, so we seek distance, even from our intimates.

2) Novelty/predictability-opposition of the desire for familiar routines and desire for novelty. We like a certain amount of routine to provide security and predictability in
our lives. Yet too much routine is boring so we seek novel experience to introduce variety in customary routine.

3) Openness/closeness-desires for openness in tension with the desire for privacy. While being open and honest is desired, complete openness would be intolerable.

--Communication Mosaics

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"First of all, you must understand that in the last days, scoffers will come, scoffing and following their evil desires. They will say, "where is this 'coming' he promised? ..." -2 peter 3:3-4

"But do not forget this one thing, dear friends : with the Lord a day is like a thousand years , and a thousand years are like a day. The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise , as some understands slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish , but everyone to come to repentance"
- 2 Peter 3:8

"Bear in mind that our Lord's patience means salvation, just as our dear brother Paul also wrote you with the wisdom that God gave him...
- 2 Peter 3:15

Therefore dear friends , since u already know this , be on your guard,so that you will not be carried away by the error of lawless men, and fall from your secure position. But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever . Amen.
-2 Peter 3:17-18

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I come before you today
And there's just one thing that I want to say
Thank you Lord,Thank you Lord

For all you've given to me
For all the blessings I can not see
Thank you Lord,Thank you Lord

With a greatful heart, with a song of praise
with an outstreched arm, I will bless your name

Thank you Lord,I just want to thank you Lord
Thank you Lord,I just want to thank you Lord
Thank you Lord

For all you've done in my life
You took my darkness and gave me your light
Thank you Lord,Thank you Lord

You took my sin and my shame,
You took my sickness and healed all my pain
Thank you Lord,Thank you Lord

With a greatful heart, with a song of praise
with an outstreched arm, I will bless your name

Thank you Lord,I just want to thank you Lord
Thank you Lord,I just want to thank you Lord
Thank you Lord ( x infinity)